How to behave on the first date? But let's say that the man liked the woman in absentia, whoever he was. How should she behave with him on the first date, so as not to scare him off? To do this, you just need to take the position of a man. And it turns out that everything is not so difficult. 1. To dress decently Does not mean to hang around the wardrobe for 3 hours, try on 33 dresses and as a result choose jeans and a sweater. It means dressing differently than a woman dresses 7 days a week. In trying to "be yourself" or, on the contrary, to show off excesses, the lady will not succeed. If she basically goes in torn sneakers or hides her hair under a hat even in the summer, then at least for one evening you can move away from the stereotype, and tell the man about your "snags" later, when he falls in love. "Let him accept me as I am" is a true statement, but it is not necessary to abuse it. At the same time, some eroticism should be present in the dress and image of a woman. Not provocative, of course (seduction on the first date is the subject of another article), but light and exciting. This is generally not binding, but men really like it. And I don't like shorts, shapeless shirts, and bad haircuts. 2. Make-up and fragrance This is necessary to complement the image, taking into account individual preferences. In principle, women who do not wear makeup and do not use perfume can, of course, take a risk and come like this, but they risk, first of all, that no one will treat them to ice cream and will not go home to see them off. 3. Allow a man to take care of himself If a man is caught timid, you can gently hint to him. If a woman does not want to hint and waits for the initiative from a man, then she will not always wait — this is already a matter of luck. The person you like can be anything, but he is, first of all, a man. And he likes to fulfill the desires of a woman, her small whims. If for the first three dates he did not understand this, then everything is running, and the woman should change the boyfriend. 4. Ask less too stupid and too serious questions The first category includes questions like " What are you thinking?", "How are you?", " What's new?". In the second — questions about the man's personal life, his parents, children and problems at work. For a woman, it is important to know only one thing: whether a man is free or married (in a relationship). But it is better to ask such things before the first date. 5. Do not hang your problems on a man, whatever they may be. Maybe the man will be noble and help, who knows. But, most likely, he will do it for the first and last time-just out of the kindness of his heart. There is no point in throwing out all the complexes and troubles in a rush of frankness on the first date. But there are women (which is a sin to conceal, and men) who believe that you need to be extremely sincere immediately and load an almost unfamiliar person with all your difficult fate. In fact, you can "load" it gradually, a little at a time, as trust is established and at least some relations develop.

6. Do not talk about other men This point should be emphasized especially. Women sometimes make this mistake-they begin to remember aloud the former, existing, failed, happy husbands of their friends, and so on. It doesn't matter if they say good things about others or bad things — men don't like it. On the first date, only the person with whom the date is scheduled has a 100% value. 7. Obsessing over children is the second fatal mistake of women. Men do not like nervous single mothers who can not spend a second without their child. Let the child — a fact in the life of a woman, but do not "drag" him on a date. This also includes animals. Men can't stand crazy cat-girls, dog-girls, bird-girls, and fish-girls, unless, of course, they are themselves. 8. Show male skills Even if a woman knows Aikido techniques, can bend rebar and drive a helicopter — she can casually mention this, but do not insist. The same applies to a business woman: a meeting even with an equal man is not a business meeting, and it is better to leave the skills of a talented entrepreneur in the office. These were the main wishes for women going on their first dates. Of course, many of the points will cause confusion, and even angry objections. This is normal: try it yourself and write in the reviews what works and what doesn't. Many obvious points are not specifically spelled out: banal human respect or rules of etiquette. Or, for example, such a basic thing as flair: first dates are made to make people feel whether there is an attraction between them. But now you know how to increase the chances of this attraction with mutual sympathy and how to reduce these chances to zero. With the wish of SECOND dates and good luck!

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