Seems like most responses from the girls in the passive side... I think one should little bit more aggresive if you really want the guy, give the hint. Show the guy yourself. If you are too closed/quiet, hard for the guy to notice you and know you better. Here I am, if you want me, come in get it. Then if it doesn't work, it is not meant to be. If you see Elizabethtown, this what the girl, Claire, did when she tried to get the guy (can you imagine how much works she put to make the maps for the roadtrip at the end). Till at the end...