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andrea7974
30 Desember 2003 jam 5:38pm
 
benar-benar diskriminatif, tdk masuk akal...dan menyebalkan :crash: === inadequate - too fat, too short, with too-small breasts or too-large noses - and the fashion and beauty industries are the primary culprits. But you can fight back. Celebrate your body - its unique curves, its astounding abilities, its particular wants and needs. Did you know: *The body type portrayed in advertising as the ideal is possessed naturally by less than 5 percent of women *The average weight of a model is 23 percent lower than that of an average woman; 20 years ago, the differential was only 8 percent *Each year the U.S. spends over $33 billion on weight-reduction programs, diet foods and beverages *95 percent of diets fail. *If the average male model had the same proportions as the average female model, he would be 6'5" and 160 lbs. *Women experience depression at roughly twice the rate of men, regardless of racial and ethnic background or economic status. *Almost 20 percent of females who participated in a recent telephone survey said they have had or think they will have cosmetic surgery at some point in their lives. *According to a recent survey, the thighs are the part of the body that women would most want to change, with 35 percent of women saying they would change their thighs if they could. source: http://www.anitaroddick.com/weblog/we...amp;id=657 Studies show: Attractive children are more popular, both with classmates and teachers. Teachers give higher evaluations to the work of attractive children and have higher expectations of them (which has been shown to improve performance). Attractive applicants have a better chance of getting jobs, and of receiving higher salaries. (one US study found that taller men earned around $600 per inch more than shorter executives.) We also believe in the 'what is beautiful is good' stereotype - an irrational but deep-seated belief that physically attractive people possess other desirable characteristics such as intelligence, competence, social skills, confidence - even moral virtue. (The good fairy/princess is always beautiful; the wicked stepmother is always ugly) It is not surprising that physical attractiveness is of overwhelming importance to us. Concern with appearance is not just an aberration of Modern Western culture. Every period of history has had its own standards of what is and is not beautiful, and every contemporary society has its own distinctive concept of the ideal physical attributes. In the 19th Century being beautiful meant wearing a corset - causing breathing and digestive problems. Now we try to diet and exercise ourselves into the fashionable shape - often with even more serious consequences. But although we resemble our ancestors and other cultures in our concern about appearance, there is a difference in degree of concern. Advances in technology and in particular the rise of the mass media has caused normal concerns about how we look to become obsessions. How? 3 reasons: Thanks to the media, we have become accustomed to extremely rigid and uniform standards of beauty. Images and reactions: what we see and how we feel about it Species The exception is the great apes - chimps, gorillas and orang-utans are capable of recognising themselves in the mirror - and of course the Naked Apes: us. What's interesting is what the other apes do when presented with a mirror: they use mirrors to groom themselves, pick food out of their teeth and make faces at themselves for entertainment - i.e. more or less the same reactions as us Naked Apes. Sex Men looking in the mirror are more likely to be either pleased with what they see or indifferent. Research shows that men generally have a much more positive body-image than women - if anything, they may tend to over-estimate their attractiveness. Some men looking in the mirror may literally not see the flaws in their appearance. Why are women so much more self-critical than men? Because women are judged on their appearance more than men, and standards of female beauty are considerably higher and more inflexible. Women are continually bombarded with images of the 'ideal' face and figure - what Naomi Woolf calls 'The Official Body'. Constant exposure to idealised images of female beauty on TV, magazines and billboards makes exceptional good looks seem normal and anything short of perfection seem abnormal and ugly. It has been estimated that young women now see more images of outstandingly beautiful women in one day than our mothers saw throughout their entire adolescence. Also, most women are trying to achieve the impossible: standards of female beauty have in fact become progressively more unrealistic during the 20th century. In 1917, the physically perfect woman was about 5ft 4in tall and weighed nearly 10 stone. Even 25 years ago, top models and beauty queens weighed only 8% less than the average woman, now they weigh 23% less. The current media ideal for women is achievable by less than 5% of the female population - and that's just in terms of weight and size. If you want the ideal shape, face etc., it's probably more like 1%. Age Boys were found to be significantly less critical of their appearance: in one study, normal-weight girls expressed considerably more worries about their looks than obese boys. Adolescents: Boys do go through a short phase of relative dissatisfaction with their appearance in early adolescence, but the physical changes associated with puberty soon bring them closer to the masculine ideal - i.e. they get taller, broader in the shoulders, more muscular etc. For girls, however, puberty only makes things worse. The normal physical changes - increase in weight and body fat, particularly on the hips and thighs, take them further from the cultural ideal of unnatural slimness. A Harvard University study showed that up to two thirds of underweight 12-year-old girls considered themselves to be too fat. By 13, at least 50% of girls are significantly unhappy about their appearance. By 14, focused, specific dissatisfactions have intensified, particularly concerning hips and thighs. By 17, only 3 out of 10 girls have not been on a diet - up to 8 out of 10 will be unhappy with what they see in the mirror. Adults: Among women over 18 looking at themselves in the mirror, research indicates that at least 80% are unhappy with what they see. Many will not even be seeing an accurate reflection. Most of us have heard that anorexics see themselves as larger than they really are, but some recent research indicates that this kind of distorted body-image is by no means confined to those suffering from eating disorders - in some studies up to 80% of women over-estimated their size. Increasing numbers of normal, attractive women, with no weight problems or clinical psychological disorders, look at themselves in the mirror and see ugliness and fat. Research confirms what most of us already know: that the main focus of dissatisfaction for most women looking in the mirror is the size and shape of their bodies, particularly their hips, waists and thighs. In the most recent research, there is some evidence of an increase in body-dissatisfaction among males. As well as some early-adolescent boys, men undergoing the so-called 'male menopause' or mid-life crisis - i.e. men between the ages of about 45 and 55 - are most likely to be dissatisfied with their appearance. When men are dissatisfied, the main focuses of concern are height, stomachs, chests and hair loss. We may see them surreptitiously drawing in their stomachs and walking 'taller' as they pass the mirror. Ethnic group A study of Mexican immigrants in America found that those who had immigrated after the age of 17 were less affected by the prevailing super-thin ideal than those who were 16 or younger when they came to the US. In a Washington University study, Black women with high self-esteem and a strong sense of racial identity actually rated themselves more attractive than pictures of supposedly 'beautiful' white fashion models. In another study about 40% of moderately and severely overweight Black women rated their figures to be attractive or very attractive. Other research indicates that this may be because African-American women are more flexible in their concepts of beauty than their White counterparts, who express rigid ideals and greater dissatisfaction with their own body-shape. In a study of British and Ugandan students' evaluation of body-shapes, the Ugandans rated an 'obese' female figure much more attractive than the British (they were also more tolerant of too-skinny males). Another British study showed that Asian-British women were more content with their body size than white British women, despite the fact that the Asians' ideal body size was as slim as that of the white women, suggesting that the Asian-British women were less concerned about matching the ideal than the white women. Sexual orientation Recent studies show that homosexual men experience greater body-dissatisfaction than heterosexual men, while homosexual women have a more positive body-image than heterosexual women. This seems to be mainly due to the higher emphasis on appearance in gay male culture - although it is possible that stability of relationships (see below) may also be a factor. TV & Magazines Although many TV programmes feature attractive people, ads tend to use the most idealised images, so people who've been watching a lot of ITV and C4 are likely to feel less positive about their image in the mirror. Programmes such as 'Baywatch' are also likely to induce a sense of dissatisfaction. The same applies to reading fashion magazines. Recent experiments have shown that exposure to magazine photographs of super-thin models produces depression, stress, guilt, shame, insecurity, body-dissatisfaction and increased endorsement of the thin-ideal stereotype. Magazines like Vogue and Elle are banned in many eating-disorder clinics, because of their known negative effect on patients' body-image. Mood Childhood Touch-deprivation factor: People suffering from extreme body-image disturbance report a lack of holding and hugging as children. Married or single Pregnancy Eating-disorders Lunch Shopping Menstrual cycle Body Dysmorphic Disorder Sport One American study indicates that female body-builders, by contrast, seem to have a more positive body-image than other women. A London University study appears to confirm this, finding that women who take part in sport (body-builders, rowers and netballers) have more positive perceptions of their own bodies and increased acceptance of muscular body shapes, despite their divergence from cultural ideals. It is interesting to note that another study showed exercise therapy to be as effective as conventional psychotherapy in treating serious body-image disturbance in young women. Generally both men and women who participate in sport have a more positive body-image than those who do not. Obesity Acceptance of sociocultural standards Kate Fox, 1997. |
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Nenek
30 Desember 2003 jam 11:50pm
 
How sad. What is important is who you are not how you look. If you are only go for the image that someone else create for you, |
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andrea7974
31 Desember 2003 jam 8:45am
 
Nenek menulis:You are right, Nenek. But sad to say that many people feel insecure just because of how they look ![]() I just hope that someday more people will be more realistic and be able to love themself as they are right now in Indonesia there are so many girls who have plastic cosmetic surgeries, breast implant, etc. Many of them also smoke just to get their body in shape. I think those kind of people don't know what they are doing |
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Chan Cao
31 Desember 2003 jam 10:24am
 
Yeah, andrea, very true. They really don't know what they're doing. Some of them even using drugs to maintain their shape. I have a co-worker here, a nice lady. I know her for 4 years, and I haven't see her eat rice/bread/potato/ or anything contained carbohidrate, even once. She's doing "Tiger Diet", so she never eat vegetable, carbohidrate, and fruit. Only cooked meat. She already in this diet for about 5 years. Oh yes she has a great shape, but also an acute hemarrhoids. Geee.... |
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andrea7974
31 Desember 2003 jam 1:32pm
 
Chan Cao menulis:She doesn't know what she has missing in her life ![]() makan itu kan salah satu kenikmatan hidup...and hemorrhoids...yikes....that can be dangerous though. kayaknya makan apa aja itu oke lah...asal tahu batas dan tidak berlebihan. dan asalkan kita comfortable dengan diri kita sendiri...puas dengan apa yang kita miliki (Our talent, personality, etc. )....so what? peduli apa orang bilang kita pesek, hidung besar, gendut atau apa? tul gak? |
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Chan Cao
2 Januari 2004 jam 9:32am
 
Gue setuju banget kalo makan dibilang kenikmatan hidup :alcoholic: Gue lagi setengah mati ngerem napsu makan nih, udah overweight 10 kg >< Nah ini alasannya buat kesehatan, bukan kecantikan, kegantengan dan bla blanya. Tapi ce2 memang lebih sensi kalo soal beginian. Dibilangin "big girl" sekali, langsung bulimia. Dibilangin "lo kayak papan", langsung panik ngadu ke mana2. (Gue pernah dicurhatin temen gue jam 2 pagi lantaran masalah "papan" ini ;D ) Santai aja ngapah. Yang penting sehat, tahan dibanting2, nggak peduli gemuk apa kurus. Tapi standar beauty beda2 lho di tiap negara. Yang keliatan jelek di negaranya, ada kemungkinan dibilang "cantik" di negara lain |
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andrea7974
2 Januari 2004 jam 9:52am
 
Chan Cao menulis:setuju kalau orang diet untuk kesehatan. itu kan yang paling penting. buat apa kelihatan bagus kalau tidak sehat? soal standar kecantikan.....kayaknya 15 tahun ini semuanya standardnya jadi sama deh...semuanya mengacu pada Hollywood. Yang cantik itu kalau tinggi, langsing, putih...berdada besar, terus bibir sedikit tebal di bawah (model Angelina Jolie), alis tipis, apalagi ya? kalau tdk percaya...perhatikan aja cewek2 India.dan Indonesia. melihat artis Indo lebih parah lagi...menurutku tampang mereka kok mirip semua atuh.... hidungnya bentuknya sama..bentuk bibir mirip2... Aku bilang sih itu namanya standardisasi yah! |
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Jojon
2 Januari 2004 jam 6:46pm
 
Chan cao cowok ato cewek sih ? |
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Floo..
2 Januari 2004 jam 9:53pm
 
temen chancao itu diet atkins yah? hehehe.... katanya napas bisa bau. dia BM ga chancao? gue setuju soal cantik itu ga universal. gue punya temen, putih, tinggi, sexy, cakepppp.... bgt org jepang. yg naksir byk org bule. tapi semua temen cowo gue yg jepang bilang kl dia sama skali ga cakep. asli gue sampe ngotot2an sm mereka.... yg jelas sih, apa yg gue tahu soal cowo, kl cewe biar cakep cuma bego en nyebelin suka pd sebel. kl cewe ceria en 'hangat' biar ga brp cakep juga pd suka. betul ga cowo2? |
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izaku
2 Januari 2004 jam 10:03pm
 
mmm standar kecantikan mah relatif, mnrt elo cantik or ganteng, mnrt org laen blm tentu yg penting mah sifat atuh |
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Chan Cao
5 Januari 2004 jam 10:33am
 
Tua? Dimakan usia? Suntik botox. Tariiik terouuus pokoknya. Kalo udah menganggap penampilan adalah segalanya, ya kagak bakalan puas, maunya diturutin terus. Floo: Oh diet Atkins namanya, ya? Dia bilang Tiger Diet tuh (Ngomong2 tiger mah makan mentah ya, dagingnya nggak pake dimasak segala Jojon: Betoooul! (*Gaya Zainuddin MZ*) Tampang bisa dioperasi tapi kepribadian mana bisa diutak-atik. Ngomong2 itu ce RRC yang dipermak 12 kali oplas kok gue liat nggak ada cakep2nya ye.... |
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Jojon
5 Januari 2004 jam 6:18pm
 
Chan Cao menulis:Gue tanya Chan Cao cowok ato cewek, jawabnya koq "Betoulll !", jadi yg bener yg mana nih ![]() |
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ToOn99
6 Januari 2004 jam 3:31pm
 
ada yang notice nggak tiba2 saja waktu miss world yang lalu kontestan dari china bisa masuk runner up. Dulu mana pernah tuh chinese masuk 3 besar. masuk babak 8 besar aja rasanya nggak pernah. |
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Azalae
6 Januari 2004 jam 3:40pm
 
toon, ada fotonya? tapi post di ... mmm ... celebrities > venuses ato bikin thread baru deh. ntar digigit andrea loh bajak thread ini. |
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andrea7974
6 Januari 2004 jam 5:33pm
 
Azalae menulis:jadi selama ini Azzy pikir aku itu....rottweiler, bulldog, atau herder? >< sedih deh.... Toon : itu cewek Chinese kan yg tinggi banget itu kan? |
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ToOn99
7 Januari 2004 jam 10:49am
 
gue nggak ingat sih, nontonnya juga cuman pas babak final doank, di rumah orang lagi.(nggak modal) |
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andrea7974
7 Januari 2004 jam 10:59am
 
Jojon menulis:Mengejutkan tapi ini terjadi..ternyata survey membuktikan bahwa cowok lebih suka cewek yang cakep dan sexy tapi kepribadiannya palsu dari pada cewek yang biasa-biasa tapi kepribadiannya baik. Jadi...gombal bener kalau ada orang bilang look doesn't matter |
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ToOn99
7 Januari 2004 jam 11:30am
 
emang look doesnt really matter, asalkan jangan terlalu mengecewakan lah! biar baek kalo cewek tampang pak ogah, yah gue ogah juga |
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andrea7974
7 Januari 2004 jam 11:47am
 
ToOn99 menulis: andrea7974 menulis:Aku bilang juga tampang biasa-biasa....kalau sdh jelek kayak pak Ogah mah gak usang diomongin ![]() |
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Chan Cao
7 Januari 2004 jam 12:24pm
 
Gimana kalo pas diem cakep, tapi pas senyum, mulutnya sampe dari kuping ke kuping??? Tapi kalo nurut temen gue, tampang nggak penting. Sing penting body. Tampang jelek bisa ditutupin pake kantong kresek. Jahaaaat bangeeet... |