Dating for the elderly?

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Jamesss 10 April 2021 jam 6:05pm  

Even some 30-40 years ago, love at the age of 50 was considered something unnatural and abnormal. Now new couples, in which one or both partners are 60-70 years old, are not uncommon. That's just what it is "the last love" and what to do with it?

What is it, love in old age?
No one plans to wait for their second half until old age. Someone lives alone, never having met their mate, someone lives in a relationship that has become more like a good neighbor, and someone has managed to become a widow, having lost a spouse. In any case, love comes when there is an emptiness in the heart and there is a place for it there.

And this is not at all the high-strung, enthusiastic feeling that we experience in our youth. Late love is a feeling of the soul, tender, deep as the abyss. A person in old age suddenly sees the bright light of love that has descended to him. He has already seen too much to be afraid and knows too much to let go of the chance to feel again the rush of life, joy and happiness that love gives.

In old age, to love means to live, breathe, and think in a completely different way. Having fallen in love, a person regains the meaning of life. He begins to take care of himself. He again becomes important to like himself and his loved one. Health and well-being improves, diseases recede. This happens because a person adjusts himself and his body to a full-fledged life, full of emotions and impressions; life, not vegetationism.

After a person suddenly realizes that he has fallen in love, the stage of anxiety begins. The same questions are constantly spinning in my head: "What if it seems to me?", " What if I'm too old?", " What if my feeling is not mutual?»
Love is very hard to hide, especially from yourself. In any case, a person who loves will not be able to restrain their feelings for long. Long meaningful looks, smiles, long conversations... And this should not be shy, because love, true love, is always mutual.

If you are not sure about the feelings of your chosen one for you, you should try to get to know him more: spend more time together, communicate. In this case, you will either see an answering warmth, or feel the ice of indifference. Whatever the answer of the second half, certainty is still better than mental anguish. Therefore, you should not keep your feelings in yourself for a long time. In the end, perhaps the person you fell in love with is waiting for this recognition from you and has not been indifferent to you for a long time.

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Krissio 10 April 2021 jam 6:08pm  

Dating Sites for Over 60 are becoming more popular all over the world. I will probably never understand why I am so popular, or I will understand when I refer to their category. On the other hand, if they are gaining popularity, then you can really find yourself a partner at 60 years old.

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DouglasJohnson 5 Juli 2021 jam 12:34am  

It seems to me that age is not the main thing. Many more overweight women were unable to find their partner. What to do with it?

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SienJoel 5 Juli 2021 jam 3:25am  

DouglasJohnson menulis:
It seems to me that age is not the main thing. Many more overweight women were unable to find their partner. What to do with it?
You are completely correct. There are many online resources that are designed to facilitate the search for new relationships. I always advise starting with this imp source. A dating site is like an Easter basket with tons of surprises inside. you just need to be patient) Several of my acquaintances have already found a partner there for their future families.