Proper communication with people, and in particular with women, taking into account their psychological type, should be built according to some rules that are extremely important to observe for the successful result of such communication. I should note that in this article I do not want to tell you about the ways of flirting, but about the general rules of communication between a man and a woman, which can be applied in a variety of situations, it can be both business relationships and personal. These rules should rather be applied if a man wants to win over a woman, rather than push her away. The psychology of men and women has some differences, although there are some psychological moments that are inherent in both sexes, because if we generalize as people, it turns out that we have a lot in common, and if we generalize as living beings, as animals, then there will be even more similarities. And yet, the very differences in the psyche of men and women need to be known in order to build the most subtle dialogue, and not use exclusively natural instincts. So how exactly should we men communicate with representatives of the opposite sex, so that we are pleasant to them in such an interesting occupation?

First of all, we must be attentive in communicating with a woman, they feel attention very subtly, especially if this attention will be switched to someone else, and even more so if it will be switched to another woman. You should not pay attention to other women, communicating with the one that interests you, first of all, especially if you have just met. Be serious and attentive dear men, do not question the exclusivity of your interlocutor, focus exclusively on her, control yourself. Next, it is very important to let the woman speak out, while listening to her in the most attentive way. I understand that some women can talk for hours, and in some cases it will be appropriate to stop her, but in most cases it is better not to do this, it does not take much time for most women to fully state their position. Therefore, listening carefully to her, let her speak out, show her respect, pretend if necessary that you are interested in her words, you find them relevant, interesting, and they even make you think, it certainly depends more on what was said.

Sometimes a woman is waiting for your emotions, which must be shown, even if you do not have them, well, this is an elementary politeness and a demonstration of understanding, applicable not only to communicating with women, but in general with all people. Do not mock and do not condemn a woman, many men often do this, especially if you are looking at a woman who is asking for a similar attitude to herself. Become an exception for her, do not react to her like everyone else, this is already interesting for her, and means that you see someone else in her, not like the others, and in her words, of course. If a woman shows dissatisfaction with you, or she expresses her indignation about a situation, complains about something or somehow shows her emotions, you should not contradict her and oppose something to this. That is, accept everything she says and soften her indignation, agree that you may be guilty, say, or feel sorry for her, or support her, in general, do not oppose anything to her.

You should not show your masculinity and start arguing, putting forward arguments against what she says, and do not ask a woman to be strong, because she is a woman. Agree, feel sorry, calm down and support the woman, in case she shows her emotions, otherwise if you argue with her, it's like throwing coal into the oven, from which the flame in it will flare up even more. So be a soft pillow, not a stone wall, for most cases, this is a more correct response option. A woman often likes to convey her emotions to a man in order to encourage him to act, while often sometimes exaggerating what she is talking about, this is done by her consciously or unconsciously, but quite often. Therefore, if you do not react violently and get started, but assure her that everything will be fine and you will solve all the problems, then control over the situation will already be in your hands. In this case, the woman will get what she wants, the confidence that you will solve all her problems or just sympathize with her, depending on what she actually wants, expressing her position too emotionally. And on the other hand, you will not, like a chain dog, react thoughtlessly to her words, softening the situation both for her and for yourself.

These are simple, but very important rules of communication with a woman that men need to follow if they want to please a woman, understand her and generally keep their dialogue under control with her. As I have already said, this applies everywhere without exception, any situation requires a man to first of all just such behavior. Of course, if you want to seduce a woman, and consider your communication with the fair sex aimed only at this, then it is necessary to adhere to a number of rules that allow you to achieve this, but about them in the following articles. In this article, I want to emphasize another interesting point that you probably noticed. Some of the communication techniques that have been discussed here, as methods of communication with a woman, may well be applied to men. Men also like to be listened to carefully, when they show attention and respect to them, sometimes they even just need to talk out. And this tells us about the peculiarities of human psychology in general, only these moments are especially important for a woman, because they appeal to her feminine principle. But I will tell you about what appeals to the masculine principle, and how a woman should communicate with a man, in my next article.

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