hey_sephia menulis:
Barusan baca Jude Law selingkuh.. jadi mikir..

What would you do if your partner cheat on you?
Would you forgive him? Or cut the thread?
(Cheat = sleep with another).
(this might be a repeat for those attending 'what if' sessions).

My answer:
I don't care what the reason is. Entah pengaruh alkohol atau karena apapun, buat aku itu hal yang ngga termaafkan. It means he had betrayed my trust and our vow towards each other, so yeah I'll ask for divorce. Sorry it might impact on the kid, but he'll still be the father's kid. Just won't be my husband/partner. Don't get me wrong, aku cukup toleran dalam hal2 lain. But when it comes to infidelity, I just can't accept any reason. I made sure my partner knows about it before even involving on the relationship with me (i.e. i've given him enough warning), so if it still happens, that means he's just asking for divorce hence I will give it

Don't think i can look at him the same way. Daripada aku curigaan & capek ati lama2 stress bisa gila, mendingan out.

Aku membaca buku He's Just Not That Into You, pengarangnya Greg B... (gak inget lanjutannya), seorang konsultan penulis script Sex and the City. dan di buku itu juga disebutkan, bahwa apapun yang terjadi, cheating is cheating. Tidak ada istilah cheating yang terjadi secara 'tiba-tiba' atau 'tidak sengaja'
Cheating terjadi karena memang ada niat untuk begitu

aku sih bisa toleransi dalam berbagai hal..tapi soal cheating, no way. menurutku, manusia itu menjadi manusia yang derajatnya lebih tinggi dr mahluk lain karena manusia adalah satu-satunya mahluk yang bisa untuk membuat komitmen. nah kalau manusia melanggar komitmen yang dia buat sendiri...I don't think I can respect that kind of person.

andai aku punya pasangan dan dia cheating, aku bisa memaafkan dia. karena aku bukan type org yg pendendam. tapi kalau disuruh balik ke dia lagi..kayaknya nggak deh. things will never be the same again!