wah kalo diblg org yg hdp di dunia ini bener2 gk pernah bohong sama sekali sih... I don't think so... ada jg deny/lie to urself, kalo sdh gitu bukannya sama aja dgn munafik, and munafik juga bohong kan...

apalagi kalo udh hdp sharing (married), itu lebih susah lagi... itu white lies pasti ada, always use it for the sake of anything! misal buat "menghindari" pertengkaran, or buat turut partisipasi, bt turut happy kek, etc... mslnya buat something yg sometimes kita gk suka, tapi yah gk ditunjukin, kalo ditanya bilang oke2 aja, padahal gak gitu demen, tapi also not a BIG DEAL sampe gak bs cope sm sekali... is ok to go along gt ...

or baru abis dimarain, disuruh makan sama ortu, tapi boong udah kenyang hehe... itu kan sering tuh
or pretend to be happy/to be ok with it/ anything misalnya ditana are u ok with this result?, or u happy with ur life? or u ok with me doing this? we say yes is ok/i am ok/ im happy/ etc... but are we?? deep inside is not...

satu lagi... ttg orang kristen mau dibunuh, u di ask are u christiant? kita blg kita american kan? well... kok gak answer straight to the question? come on, are we forget with "im a truly Christiant, and I will die for my belief"... apparently, kita trying to be tricky with the answer, aka trcik the person who ask the question, avoiding the REAL TRUTH answer, lho itu bukannya sama aja dengan trying to do lies/white lies juga kan, it's indirect lying... or wait sampe pertanyaan pojokan baru kasih the true answer? give me a break!

gue ksh sample deh misal teman baek mu, hari itu u gak masuk kul krn izin, dosen bilang esok ganti jadwal ada test dadakan... trus sore nya loe telepon, nanyain di kul tadi gimana? teman loe karena sirik nilai loe bagus melulu yah bilang baek2 aja tapi abis itu stop gak ngomong apa2... trus besok nya u gk persiapan, test fail. abis itu u gondok sama teman mu karena gk jujur ke loe, tp pas ask, dia bilang lho gue kan gk bhg, u cm ask gmn di kuliahan yah emang baek2 aja kok.. emg bener kan teman gak bohong, tapi masak sih iya kita hrs selalu precise sama pertanyaan sampe se details2 nya... kan dia teman baek, mlh gk perlu ask so details kita expect udh ksh tau kan? and who knows teman baek saat itu bs turn jd enemy in seconds? is indirect lying, trying to trick... kyk are u christian? kok jawab nya gue american? itu namanya nyangkal lah... kan u gak answer and being tricky, itu sama aja dengan loe menyangkal kenyataan put this way, kalo u ask smth ke someone trus tuh orang muter2 gak jawab langsung, u jengkel gak? apalagi pas tau real answer nya beberapa hari setelah itu or lewat someone else.. itu juga gk baek kan??

so... a little white lies won't kill u like sorcy said gitu lho... and i don't think it is a sin.. as long as not harm people.. kalo demi kebaikan why not? lagian kalo end up jadi bukan demi kebaikan kayak tuh orang dikasih tau mau mati misalnya, who knows?? we are not a God, nobody is perfect, at least we have tried our best ya gak... nobody can really never tell lies.. itu the FACT whether u like it or not.

kecuali kayak si jojon bilang, are u fat? answer kalo yes, dimarahin, bilang gak juga dimarahin... itu artinya yang masalah sama orang yang nanya tuh, he/she is being difficult, crisis with her/his character ...

Even priests/pastors/budhas/kepala agama kek etc pasti pernah tell lies or do some cheating, especially if the religion turn into politic... well... it's too hypocrite to say we MUST NOT tell A LIE at all... impossible.. as we are trying being not realistic in our life. hidup gak selurus itu.. pasti selalu ada "IF"..