Hi Bluenectar.....

I joined this SPCNET group about the same time you did.... about 4-5 days ago. I always feel welcomed here. I think they are nice people. I am very sad that you can no longer be with us. If it was because of something bad from this group.....I am very very sorry.....but if it was because of something elses.......I hope things work out ok for you . If at anytime you need help or need somebody to talk to, please do not hesitate to contact me. I will try my best to help you.
Life is full of good and bad surprises. Things happen for a reason. I hope the very best for you.
I agree with the comment (of zheng) you mentioned. You probably know a saying: "a book should not be judged by its cover" The most important is what a person has in his or her inside/heart.
I hope you come back to visit us...............