This is a very difficult situation. I cannot advise you. Fair. You must make your choice yourself. I know that my older brother got married on the advice of his parents. We have a big age difference - 16 years. Maybe that's why he gives me good advice based on his experience. He says that he married the one that his parents liked. But he began to often use free dating sites later. I can't tell if his family life was really happy. Try dating sites before taking your marriage vows.