THE TRUTH ABOUT MAN......................

This is rather long but very worth while not all can
stomach it but its implications are deep and profound
and probably detrimental to ones happiness so take
time to read it. It has a hint of strong feminist agenda
but it remains truthfull. Most of us fellars are guilty as
sin on this issue though most start off with good
intentions.
>If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If
he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay
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>Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from
heartache

Stop trying to change yourself for a
relationship that's not meant to be

Don't force an attraction If he keeps
changing his mind about the relationship, take that as
a BIG sign that he is unstable. Do you really want to
be with a man like that?
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>Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when
things are not better Honorable men take care of their
business and aren't involved in a whole lot of mess.
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>The only person you can control in a relationship is
you. There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you; he doesn't
want you.
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>Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a
bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them
pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
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>You really do have to kiss a few frogs before finding
the prince. If he doesn't call, he just isn't that
interested.
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>If you want to have a clue as to how he will treat
you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his family (not just mom).
There's more than physical abuse, there's emotional
and mental abuse. If he causes any of them...flee.
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>You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change
comes from within. Please take note
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>Don't let him place rules on you that he is not willing
to
>follow himself - double standard.
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>Don't EVER make him feel he is more important
than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not
make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
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>Demand respect and if he can't give it, he can't
have you Don't compete with other women, but be aware
that men are attracted to what they see.
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>Never rely on a man for compliments, look to
yourself for that. Never borrow someone else's man. This shows
that both you and he are cheap, but you are the cheaper one.
>Never even chase someone else's man. Even if
you get him in the end, he probably only gave in because you showed
him you were easy enough.
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>When that man is sitting with his friends, do you
know the kind of things he says about you?
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>If a man cheats with you, he'll cheat on you.
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>Just because he says he loves you, doesn't mean
that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean that you are meant to
be with him. Give up the lifelong task of trying to make someone
unavailable, available, someone ungiving, giving, and
someone unloving, loving.
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>All men are NOT dogs. However All dogs are Men.

>You need time to heal between relationships...there
is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before
pursuing a new relationship
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>You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
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>Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right
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>When actions and words conflict- believe the actions. Respond to the actions
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>A real healthy relationship requires two people. One
person can end it - but it takes two to make it work.
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>Don't fall for the "I'm not the loving type"...when a
man loves you there is nothing in this world (within reason) that
he wouldn't do for you

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him he takes it for granted.

>Give him his space...let him go out with his boys, don't pressure him to spend time with you, you can't force a man to hang out with you
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>If you wouldn't allow your daughter to be with him
you shouldn't.
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>Never let a man know everything. He will use it
against you later

Have your own money. Have your own friends. Have your own life.You are confused and immature if you think men are there to provide money and a reason for living.
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>Never let a man mess up your credit. When its time to let go, let go.
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>Good men should be treated like good men.
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>Compatibility in terms of educational attainment,
values, beliefs,personal and career goals, and
socioeconomic status are important.
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>PASS THIS ON TO THE WOMAN WHO CAN
HANDLE THE TRUTH AND TO SOME MEN
>WHO ARE GOOD, THEY MIGHT WANT TO
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